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What are the Different Stages of having a Crush?

What are the Different Stages of having a Crush?

Smiling for no reason at all, dreaming about a romantic date, and hiring your friend as a detective are a few indicators that you are smitten by someone special. Whether you meet your crush in a gym or a carpool, cupid has played his part and you, my friend, are obsessively crushing over the eye candy you recently met. Eager to know the different stages of having a crush? Our relationship experts have decoded all the stages for you. Take a look at all the stages, and get ready to laugh out loud!

The First Stage

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Interest is the initial stage of having a crush. It starts with the locking of eyes and ends with butterflies in your stomach. You feel giddy as soon as you see them, and you are eager to know their name. If you already know their name, then it is all you can hear everywhere.

The Second Stage

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In the second stage, you start dreaming about dates, and as soon as you spot your crush, you are lost in their eyes. While you are talking to them, Romantic songs keep crossing your mind. You are hit by curiosity and start going through their social platforms. You religiously memorise their birth date, likes and dislikes. Not only you explore your crush’s profile, but their family and friends are now your new interest.

The Third Stage

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Your friends are all caught up with your new crush. In the third stage, you find excuses to meet or talk to them. Your friends track their moves and smartly inform you about where and when to show up. Getting all decked up becomes a morning ritual. If you are crushing over a known person, you start getting jealous about every girl or guy trying to talk or flirt with them. Your mind and heart revolve around the name of your crush, and the only thing you wish for is your crush falls madly in love with you!

The Fourth Stage

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Things start getting serious, and you start obsessing over them. You start planning your future together and coordinated outfits for your wedding. Their favourite food is yours, and their silly acts somehow impress you. You often ask yourself whether to express your feelings or not.

The Fifth Stage

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The final stage either brings happiness or days of listening to sad songs. If your crush is equally obsessed with you, then you straight away feel like that you are on cloud 9. In case of a rejection, you feel unhappy, and your dreamy fairytale comes to an end.

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